I was so inspired by Tavi, I just spent about two and a half hours on her website (rookiemag.com, check it out!) instead of doing this blog post. That being said, I shall now buckle down and get to it.
How do I love her and what she stands for? Let me count the ways.
1) She's a girl. And she's, like, a person. Wow.
2) She's blonde, and guess what? She's intelligent; she's opinionated; she's strong. I mean, I'm not a blonde, but this is a pretty huge day for them. *applause*
3) She's a feminist, but from the talk and the Web site, I'm guessing she doesn't hate men. She has created a Web site where girls can go for advice in the "Sex+Love" category, and even in the "Style" category. Yes, she wants equal representation and opportunities for girls, but she doesn't thinks this is reducing those of men until they are equivalent to a woman's; rather, she thinks this means raising those of women until they are equivalent to those allocated to men. She wears skirts and make-up. Which bring me to my next point.
4) She mentions that girls - BRACE YOURSELVES - are PEOPLE.
I KNOW.
SHE MIGHT BE INSANE.
That being said, she doesn't think that women should be one thing. While we don't HAVE to be the pink-loving, soft-spoken women of yore, we CAN be. The only problem Tavi has with our society is not that we are not men; it is, rather, that we are told what we can be. Feminism is a two-way street; the point is not to create men-hating, pants-suit wearing Amazonians, but rather to tell girls that they can be Amazonians or princesses. It's not to create girls; it's to tell girls to create themselves, whoever that might be, without anyone - a Republican pro-lifer or a hippie - telling them that they should be a certain way.
5) Also, she mentions unfair representation of women in the media. This is a major problem, and also a two-way street. Female characters are often either/or. Smart or pretty; strong or nice. Would you make a zombie-hunter blonde? Would a vampire fall in love with an overweight English Lit major? The fact is, girls are multifaceted; ballerinas are tough; indie rockers like glitter - I mean, seriously, who DOESN'T like glitter? We are not all in one category. We are not easily definable, just like men aren't. We don't come cut and paste; the saying goes 'every person is unique'. Does this apply only to men? Or are girls also magical, weird, different human beings?
No two people think or act entirely the same. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses; I think that Cinderella, or Briar Rose (Aurora, Sleeping Beauty, she had lots of names, but I digress) can hold their own in court and go shopping for shoes afterward; and some girls just like black.
We are who we are; we are not what you think we should be.
Go check out rookiemag.com. This girl might just be onto something.
-Katherine